Wednesday, 31 December 2008
Meet my mum at the train station and bump into Sze Lee! Malaysia but don't really like to go over to my dad's side! prefer my mum's side =p heh.

These 8 are my aunts! Finally 8 of them show up and today is my grandm third year death anni! So everyone must be there! Is been three years and I didn't know that time flies.
Last Day of 2008! May the New Year be good/better and awesome! Let the bad ones all being wiped away and everything will go smoothly for the coming years =)
Tuesday, 30 December 2008
Monday, 29 December 2008
MY BIRTHDAY!




Love you and big thanks to you my love!
Remind you of your younger days? Yes and is better than those I wanted in my younger days too! Haha. After all these, is time for bbq, too many photos to upload! haha. Facebook will have it! Start up the fire and guess is my first few time! haha. And we suceed, heh. so is a goond start and yeah time for BBQ! And thanks love for preparing everything and I do not need to do much but bbq eh. haha. So will upload random photos!
And surprises again =) Heh, Angeline and Jaime pop out and Happy Birthday songs =) thanks for coming down. love you girls. But i love baby more =D
I love this photo =) And I spent my night out and went back the the afternoon! Hugs up baby =)
Sunday, 28 December 2008
Chirstmas eve was spent together with my friends. Had bbq with zi ji ren(sec sch friends) over at Pasir ris. But it was drizzling so headed over slightly later together with Angeline. Bump into angel and headed over together with her.



Never take much photos though. But I enjoyed myself and left early because going to meet Swee Boon and Serene. Don't feel like leaving early though. Anyways thanks to those who organise it which allows me to meet up with them and catch up a little =)
After that left to aml and meet them together with Angeline. When we reach, pam left and we board Jaime's dad's car and head to somewhere for supper! Nothing much though after that. Just walking around and stuff.
So fast Christmas had passed, got to wait another year for this! MY BIRTHDAY!
Friday, 26 December 2008
8's to 9
HEY Baby, Happy Birthday! Suprise post strike at midnight which marks 26th Dec. The day this special girl is borned!
This day is special to me too, because baby you are mine.
Happy Birthday baby! Do not keep thinking you are young and all aye, slow you. People all turning 20, now just arrive at 19th. Haha. Baby I hope you have had ( well past tense if you read this after the celebration for you) a great and unforgettable time with me throughout the day and night and so on. Hope you will like your gift/s. Small ones, silly fun ones or just the whole idea and effort of it. There might be a chance you will read this before the actual meet up to celebrate, so Surprise then in advance! Lets go celebrate.
Anyways baby, always be proud of yourself, for all the maturity and that Golden heart of yours. Pls keep that going. Proud of my baby for being so strong, stronger than you think, for being who you are, for standing by your convictions and nature. I Love You uncountablely for every inch of you and for every meter of your concern and for your miles of good thinking for others. Do consider placing more care for yourself, the rest leave it up to me. Heh!!!
Happy Birthday, I love you.
For all others knocking it out on the dance floor having so much fun, I had that much fun too just by sitting right next to you.
This day is special to me too, because baby you are mine.
Happy Birthday baby! Do not keep thinking you are young and all aye, slow you. People all turning 20, now just arrive at 19th. Haha. Baby I hope you have had ( well past tense if you read this after the celebration for you) a great and unforgettable time with me throughout the day and night and so on. Hope you will like your gift/s. Small ones, silly fun ones or just the whole idea and effort of it. There might be a chance you will read this before the actual meet up to celebrate, so Surprise then in advance! Lets go celebrate.
Anyways baby, always be proud of yourself, for all the maturity and that Golden heart of yours. Pls keep that going. Proud of my baby for being so strong, stronger than you think, for being who you are, for standing by your convictions and nature. I Love You uncountablely for every inch of you and for every meter of your concern and for your miles of good thinking for others. Do consider placing more care for yourself, the rest leave it up to me. Heh!!!
Happy Birthday, I love you.
For all others knocking it out on the dance floor having so much fun, I had that much fun too just by sitting right next to you.
The echo of that rock concert got the block shaking, that echo of your voice got this heart beating.
While in a huge crowd and in an unfirmiliar maze I was lost, yes. But I know I was getting out with more than love and relief because I was getting out of it with you.
You know I know (haha) I'll do the same for you.
"Tell me tell me, the boy once asked me.
Why was your girlfriend's birthday said to be in your list of most importantly?
Now now boy, she is my baby.
Baby?
Yes yes, I tell you I tell you.
I image she might be one day my lady lady.
Ohh, tell me tell me so I can be ready.
Yeah yeah, I am taking it steady.
But as long as it takes and when your turns up for your kind of lady,
then inform me inform me but not of one who drives you crazy.
Little boy so now you know already already.
I image she might be one day my lady lady.
I image she might be one day my lady lady!
(Little boy: Steady steady!)
Hahaha. ok pls accept my birthday poem. ; )
Thursday, 25 December 2008
Finding the right person!?
Something nice to read about. A very good article.
Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?' I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit). Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.
Remember this always:'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'
Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?' I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit). Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.
Remember this always:'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'
Wednesday, 24 December 2008
Is Christmas Eve now! Will be meeting my secondary school friends later for bbq, hopes that it won't rain as it is raining now! This year, not having baby here with me for Christmas and Christmas Eve =( Anyway hope you enjoy yourself in Church and home =)
Yesterday which is monday, eve of Christmas Eve! Meet up with my cousin at Bugis in the afternoon and did some shopping! Later at the evening, her friend joined us and we continued to shop around and sadly, I did not get myself anything, need to save up as I do not have much money left! No work = no money! Haha. Will be leaving to Malaysia on 27 and to KL and back to JB on the 30 and to my uncle place! I so don't want to go because the main reason is that I will miss my boy for sure! But I wanna do shopping and yes see my grandmother also =)

Baby came to Bugis to pick me up =) heh thanks love. So baby and I left my cousin and her friend to City hall and after taking a few picture with that Christmas tree, went to eat at mac at Marina Square! Saw Bee Eng, thanks anyway and will see you tml! Thanks love for taking the time for me! Always will want to meet up with you if I have the time! Meeting and seeing you is never enough!
Monday, 22 December 2008
Sat down by the side of the flyer area and it is a nice windy night. Took a lot of pictures but some are uploaded and are below! They are all very nice =)
Always with you =)) I like it =))
Sunday, 21 December 2008
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Below will be random pictures for that day!
After all the eating, took quite a lot more pictures.
Thanks love for your time and yeah finally ice cream.can you eat more?