Been wondering nowadays because there are lots of funerals around my block. One had finished and there go another one. Hmmm it brought those memories back to me. The day when my grandfather fell sick and i missed the time of spending more time with him when he's healthy, able to move around freely. The time that my grandmother travel from malaysia to s'pore and from here back to malaysia. I've missed the time that i would be able to chat and know more about them. Lives was taken away from the sick one, the old one, those who wasn't careful enough and brings misery, sadness and and the feeling of guilty to their family. There new lives was brought to the world which brings on laughter and smile to the family. When people who are close to you and fell sick, we will tend to realise the importance of that person and try to spend more time with them and care more for them only when they are sick thinking that there wasn't a lot of time left for the sick one. But this doesn't work. Why not spend more time with your love ones, or someone close to you when they are healthy and able to chat and move around freely. Why people always wait until the person who doesn't have much time left and try to take time out and do something for him/her. Some people try all their ways to live longer and spend their time together with their love ones, family. They try to eat more healthy and exercise and do everything that can do. But why some poeple just want to hurt, put harm to themselves by smoking, taking drugs and doing somethings that isn't good for their health. They only think of themselves and nv thought that people around them care so much for them. If they really care, they wouldn't have a second thought on smoking and all just because they are stress. There are a lot of different way to release stress right. The only way is to spend your time properly and leave no regrets behind, spend more time with our grandparents when they are around, just the thought of being beside them is great enough even if we have communication problem. Do treasure the people around you when they are around.